“So, those moments of discovery together, as adults, you don’t get too many of those in life. But when in the world of swinging we get those kinds of surprising, you know, moments that you didn’t see coming where you learn something new that you didn’t, you know, you didn’t think there was a gap in your knowledge, but all of a sudden you realise ‘Oh, I’ve never seen you that way before,’ or ‘I didn’t realise that I could experience that!'”