I’ve written a book. It’s been three or four years coming to fruition and I hope it’s what I set out to write – a comprehensive guide to the various forms of consensual non-monogamy told through the voices of a very diverse group of people from six continents.
“Ew, what do you mean you caught flu? What have you been doing?”“Well I was on the bus next to this guy who was sneezing…
“So, those moments of discovery together, as adults, you don’t get too many of those in life. But when in the world of swinging we get those kinds of surprising, you know, moments that you didn’t see coming where you learn something new that you didn’t, you know, you didn’t think there was a gap in your knowledge, but all of a sudden you realise ‘Oh, I’ve never seen you that way before,’ or ‘I didn’t realise that I could experience that!'”
Sigh. Insecurity. Why do we have to deal with these things? No one likes feeling insecure. We feel insecure for all sorts of reasons. Sometimes…
Episode 3 of Beyond Monogamy looks at consent, life in a non-consensual culture and how we can check that we’re interacting with others in as mutually consensual a way as possible
When I sat down to write my book ‘A World Beyond Monogamy’ I was still using the term ‘ethical non monogamy’ as a catch-all to…